Jessica & Herman
Our Wedding
Message From Couple
Hello friends and family!
Please read ALL questions and answers below:
IS THERE A DRESS CODE?
Yes! The dress code is Tropical Cocktail. We hope you see this day as an opportunity to have fun and dress up. The only thing we ask you please not wear is white and pale colors that look white, or flip flops.
HOW DO I RSVP?
You’ll scroll down to the bottom of this page or select RSVP at the top of the page. RSVP per person, not per room/per party. So that we can get an accurate head count.
WHAT DAYS SHOULD I BOOK?
1/22/2025 - 1/25/2025 at the minimum. You are more than welcome to arrive earlier and/or leave later!
HOW MUCH IS THE DEPOSIT AND WHAT IS THE DEADLINE TO BOOK?
The deposit is $150.00 across the board for all guests regardless of the duration of stay and regardless of the type of room. Please have your deposit paid by September 1st, 2024. It is suggested to reserve the room as soon as possible to avoid room rate increases.
WHEN DO I NEED TO RSVP BY?
Please RSVP no later than September 1st, 2024. The earlier the better!
About Us
A Love Story Over 15 Years in the Making
Herman and Jessica have known each other for over fifteen years, and their relationship began in a unique way. Herman was best friends with Jessica's brother-in-law, and close to her older sister, Maritza, whom he later married to Seth in 2018. They hid their feelings for each other from their family and friends for several years, not knowing how they would react. But, little did everyone know, they had secretly been harboring feelings for each other for years. Sneaking off to laugh and flirt, they kept their love under wraps. However, Anna, Jessica's older sister, always had a hunch and rooted for them.
In 2020, a challenging year for the world due to COVID and especially for Jessica, who lost her older sister Anna, Herman was there for her and her family. It became clear that their feelings for each other were stronger than ever before. It was then that they realized their connection was more than just a crush. They were meant to be together, best friends and soulmates, with a shared sense of humor and a bond that transcended words.
In 2023, after a romantic dinner on a Puerto Rico trip, Herman proposed to Jessica with a beautiful ocean view. With toes in the sand and the sound of waves crashing, Jessica immediately said yes!!
Gift Registries
Wedding Party
Maritza Sichel
Matron of Honor
Say hello to Maritza, shes the older sister and a role model - sometimes the second mom. lol She‘s the smartest person I know and is such a boss lady. One of the best sisters! Maritza knows something about everything, so be sure to find her on the day if you’re up for a good conversation!
Ayla Anderson
Bridesmaid
Let me tell you about Ayla! She's my brother-in-law's sister, but she's like a sister to me too. This lady is a total boss! She runs her own business and kills it as a decorator. She's not just talented, she's got some serious stories to tell! She's lived some pretty wild adventures, and she's always happy to dish out the details!
Rosie Aguilar
Bridesmaid
Meet my partner in crime, Rosie! We‘ve been BFFs since high school and my go-to travel buddy. We've shared countless adventures, the most memorable being camping in Alaska next to a glacier! We've shared it all, the highs, lows, and the downright messy, but through thick and thin, we've always had each other's backs. Rosie’s charisma and genuine nature make her a joy to be around, and her thoughtfulness never goes unnoticed.
Riley Anna Sichel
Flower Girl
My niece Riley is a talented little comedian! She excels at spreading chill vibes, showing off her dance moves, and receiving applause. She absolutely loves Ms. Rachel (if you know you know) and is sure to grab everyone's attention when she walks down the aisle!
Willie Bonilla
Groomsman
Literally my day one! My twin brother! We are different but we have always been there for each other. My brother has helped shape me into the man I am today. I am blessed to always have him by my side.
Kevin Bonilla
Groomsman
One of my younger brothers. He is definitely the smarter brother! He is witty and has a funny sense of humor.
Mike Anderson
Groomsman
I don’t think Mike needs an introduction. He is the life of the party and always looks to have a great time. I was drawn to him for his positive outlook on any situation. Hanging out with this guy will definitely result in consuming some heavily poured shots of tequila!!!
Víctor Aguilar
Groomsman
Man of few words unless you get to know him. One of my best friends that I can count on for anything. Victor is the type of person that will help you take out a motor past midnight, and look at the positive side and point out that at least we got to hang out and drink a few beers.
Seth Sichel
Groomsman
Seth has been my right hand man for a long time. I consider him a brother! Shared a lot of beers and a lot of stories. Some of them dumb, some of them sketchy, but all of them worth it!!!!
Tomas Montiel
Groomsman
Tomas is a huge hearted person. He is usually the "mom" of our group, haha. Tom is willing to help out anyone around him, even random bartenders at understaffed bars.
Itinerary
Wedding Ceremony
January 24th
5:30 PM - 6:00 PM
Beach
Cocktail Hour
January 24th
6:00 PM - 7:00 PM
TBD
Dinner & Reception
January 24th
7:00 PM - 10:00 PM
Secret Garden
Accommodations
Tulum, Mexico
Dreams Tulum Resort
Dreams Tulum sits on two miles of powdery white sand with activities to make the whole family happy. And you’re right on the ocean for snorkeling, catamarans, windsurfing, kayaking and jumping on our ocean trampoline. Choose from magnificent dining options featuring nine gourmet international restaurants including six à la carte options, a buffet, a grill and a café. Dine at the Seaside Grill, an à la carte steak house, enjoy French cuisine in a romantic setting at Bordeaux or visit El Patio for Mexican fare. 24-hour dining options allow guests to enjoy late night bites at the Sky Bar. Or stay in and order room service. It’s all available at any hour day or night. Seven bars, including pool and beachside, are perfect places to make new friends, or just catch up with each other.
Travel Information
We have partnered with Destify to make booking your travel easy. Destify offers 24/7 customer support, low price guarantees, low deposits, and free perks. Please book your stay with our group to ensure easy planning and communication for all wedding events and to maximize the perks offered to our group.
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0% INTEREST PAYMENT PLANS
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AGENCY FEES
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PRICE MATCHING
Make your reservation as soon as possible to guarantee your room.
All packages are all-inclusive with unlimited dining and beverages (alcoholic & non-alcoholic), activities, entertainment, taxes and fees.
Round trip ground transportation from the airport is available for purchase.
Reservations can be held for a low, non-refundable deposit of $150 per person. Final payments are due 65 days prior to your departure date. Pricing and availability are subject to change at any time. Price matching is available at the time of booking; restrictions apply. Minimum night stays can change at any time.
We do not have a room block reserved so no space is being held at the hotel. Book your stay as soon as possible to guarantee your room at the resort.
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Who We Are
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